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Saturday, November 5, 2016

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 I am so excited to publish a post after a long time.My continuous procrastination has Left me  with no blog post in 3years.So where am I now?.I am in a very happy place;my Happy place.Still on my MPhil/PHD postgraduate study.And I am finally lecturing  law so happy to impact knowledge and contribute to the all round  development of the next generation of lawyers/leaders in Nigeria.

Thursday, September 19, 2013


It is  so ironic that 17years ago i was so sure i was cut out for legal practice... looking back now may be... may be not...lecturing ?ooh yeah i m looking forward to that bagged my masters in Law(LLM) few months ago will start my MPhil/PhD   soon.Just when i was sure lecturing  was all i wanted to do my lil sis mentioned 'cakes' i  went  for the training.It was so fulfilling for me and now i have my own cake shop so excited about it.....I can proudly say i've found myself will continue on my cake part, open branches around the world and also be a cool law lecturer what is better than that....#wink#.
Sometimes in life we really need to look within and be objective to find our-self to experience true fulfillment many people are in a particular career for the money but it is sweeter making  money and enjoying yourself at the same time.

Saturday, September 7, 2013


Can't believe i went on blogging leave for this long,i m back i hope... my baby girl is nine months now oh yeah!!!. I ve a baby girl now can't get over that....#shortestpostever#.I will be back.
My princess...

Thursday, May 24, 2012


To set a family budget takes a good deal of patience along with some careful planning. When
you’ve got children the process can be even more extensive. Planning for things like their
medical coverage, college needs and perhaps eventual wedding plans all need to be taken into
consideration.However its important to teach your children the importance of saving from their young age.
    Cultivating the habit of opening a savings account for all your kids  and dropping a dime there often. I opened a savings account for my 2yr old son(2yrs ago) and i am enjoying saving for him,16yrs  from now i am hoping to handover the account to him.
There are some simple ways to save money in our homes without stress i.e you can  turn off the light when leaving a room and teach the children to do same, you can  lower the heater when no one is home etc.Newspapers are another thing that we can completely eliminate. Chances are we read only a few sections and discard the rest. You could try getting up early and watching about 30 minutes of the morning news.Not many take into cognizance that a small leakage in any of the pipes could add to your water-bill.
You need to clearly know the difference between your needs and wants.It is not what you earn that makes you rich, but it is what you save!.Driving short distances when, as a matter of fact, these drives could be avoided, is never a good idea. Nearby places could always be taken by foot,always ensure that before you purchase any automobile make sure you check its fuel efficiency and capacity.
You can  shop for summer in spring  to save some money, a few dollars/Naira at the movie theater or have dinner out once or twice a week, those seemingly minor expenses can quickly accumulate into a lot of money.
Saving money isn't as impossible as you might think. The first major hurdle that people face when trying to save money is to organize their finances. Chances are, your spending much more money than your realize and chances are you are completely oblivious to it.
One excellent money saving tip is to start tracking all of your spending. You will need a small notebook and something to write with. This must accompany you everywhere and everything that you by must be recorded down to the last penny.

To Your financial success,

Thursday, May 17, 2012


I haven't posted  in a while,its been a mixture of a lot of  things; Daily activities and circumstances...
 Few weeks ago oluwadamisi turned 2yrs,will post a few pictures in this post,looking back at his birth and all the complications,i can only thank God for everything.
I am presently working on a project will blog about it  SOON.

Saturday, April 7, 2012


         Today we Christians worldwide  celebrate the death and subsequent resurrection of our lord Jesus Christ, Who died to set us free, (for God so loved the world that he gave his only son Jesus to die for our sins John3:16)and to give all of us the opportunity/option of eternal life.
Let us  reflect on our lives ....partying,clubbing and alcohol drinking is sweet and fulfilling for a moment,but true  peace of mind and joy is in Christ Jesus erroneously,   people think/assume that to surrender to Christ is a  loss,it will rather bring you the inner peace you've been craving for and a ticket to peaceful life.
However rich and fabulous we think we are on earth if WE  are not saved HELL is the final destination.(Philippians 4:7). It is so easy that the moment you decide to surrender your life to  Christ he will receive you and give you  a new life free from condemnation(roman 8:1).The only assignment will be to study the bible daily and invite the holy spirit into your life........(The message of the cross is foolishness to those who are perishing  be wise HEAVEN  is real. (1CORINTH 1:18) .Christianity is all about forgiveness and love show love and forgiveness this day and always.
To a fulfilling easter,

Friday, February 24, 2012


 For some of us we find it very difficult to control our actions when angry, to control your anger and actions from time to time you need to work on your attitude and reactions to occurrences.  
Let yourself be free from the pressure of past instances as you can’t undo anything that's already been done. You ought to learn to value what you do have command over, instead of stressing yourself out about the situations that you can’t change.  The emotion of anger may either control us or drive us to succeed in life. If your mind is filled up with negative thoughts you'll most likely burst when a threat strikes your emotions. When your emotions are jeopardized you might be prone to flare up. In some cases, it may lead to acting irrational.
A few of us convey anger through hitting, slapping, verbally attacking, mentally maltreating, punching walls and other surfaces to let your anger out. Nothing but hurt comes from these activities. Striking or slapping somebody will leave you in the slammer or leave the victim in the hospital. Striking an individual leaves emotional scars that will stay on for years. Also, punching walls, glass, and furniture may induce harm to you. It makes no common sense to act negatively  when you're angry.
 Occasionally you might have issues understanding what somebody is saying. The best thing to do is to ask for clearer explanation from the individual. Many persons feel threatened by individuals that don’t listen to them when they're talking. You might ask yourself if you're imagining the situation or if no one truly hears you. It's good to speak up when you're being menaced by another, but it is not a great idea to respond in a harsh manner that won't solve the issue.
It's really hard to go through life without being angry at something or somebody at one time or some other. The mystery is learning to cope with your anger and discovering how to effectively declare your anger without inducing harm. For instance, if you're dealing with a person that's quite self-opinionated in a matter you might take offense to, the most beneficial thing to do is alter the subject or to kill them with kindness.
Altering the subject when you begin to feel angry may save you time and energy in the long-term. You should always alter the issue if possible,
 Self talk may be a good way to express anger. You may want to ask yourself what is going on in your mind when you're losing control. The anger might be built within for years, or it may be caused by the now, you are able to start analyzing your mind when you learn self talk techniques.
If you talk yourself through your anger you'll be able to discover ways to deal with your anger as you see it through your eyes for the 1st time.
Admitting that you've a problem may also help. Telling your acquaintances and loved ones that you need support will ensure that somebody will always be there when you need them.. If you leave anger to hang around for too long it may lead to true problems. You'll never wander from course of life’s success journey by assessing your life and making the correct decisions from the beginning. Don’t forget that issues will arrive and you have to face them head on. You are able to cope with your anger easily by maintaining a good outlook on life. There's no mountain you can’t cross when you can see your path out of any jam. To cross a mountain you require a technique, self-confidence and hope to last through the path to recovery.
To your success,